Why do some people just want to rush into love?
They make commitments, say things that they cannot mean and make assumptions that are just unfair on someone who is looking for that something real. Love is not a race, there are no prizes for finishing first it is something that should last a lifetime not just for a month or two.
Getting to know that someone special is just part of the wonderful process that is called love, but why do some people just make unrealistic demands when there is nothing to warrant those expectation.
People slow down.
When life often gets you down you tend to think that things cannot get any better. But as long as you have a roof over your head, friends and hope then nothing can ever get you down.
The past few weeks have been tough, I have learnt some valuable lessons that will never be repeated again. But without learning and growing how can we better ourselves? Ok so I have been knocked down a few times but there are still many rounds to go in this fight and I am still as hungry as ever to achieve my goal.
Life is all about believing in the dreams that you can achieve, believing in yourself and making yourself a better person each day. My dream still exists it has not died, its just been postponed temporarily but I know that it will happen and nothing, fate, hurt, anguish or despair will stop me.
A new day has begun.
So the McCanns and Robert Murat have finally been cleared of any involvement in the dissaperance of Madeline McCann. One year after the four year old was taken the main three suspects have been cleared.
The pure incompetence of the Portugese Police has meant that time, money and above all reputations have been wasted or damamged. Rather than spending time to look for Madeline the police instead just tried to frame someone and a year later that the case has been closed.
Madeleine disappeared in Praia da Luz on 3 May 2007, aged three.
The McCanns and Mr Murat have all always strongly denied any involvement in Madeleine's disappearance from her family's holiday apartment in the Algarve.
Attorney-general Fernando Jose Pinto Monteiro said the 14-month investigation had uncovered no evidence of a crime by any of the suspects or "arguidos".
Libel case
Speaking after the announcement, the McCanns' spokesman, Clarence Mitchell, said: "It's far too early to give their immediate reaction yet, but they are, of course, liaising closely with their lawyers in Portugal and Britain.
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"Once they have digested the content of the attorney-general's statement and any implications, they will give a reaction a little later this evening."
Mr Mitchell said lawyers for the McCanns would be able to examine the police case files by the end of the week.
The couple hope information within them could help their own private investigators continue the search for their daughter.
"The main thing now is to get everything back to finding Madeleine. All of this has damaged their good reputations and they will have to assess where they go from here," Mr Mitchell said.
In March, Mr and Mrs McCann reached a libel settlement and got an apology from Express Newspapers for suggesting they had been responsible for Madeleine's death.
With all the legal bullshit that took place people tend to overlook the facts that this little girl is still missing.
I pray that they find her and then all this can be forgotten.

